A living will is the document that tells the rest of us what your parent wants when your parent can’t say it themselves.
It is one of the most consequential pieces of paper a family can have, and one of the most frequently absent. Adult children who would never let their parent leave for a road trip without insurance regularly let their parent walk into a stage of life that has higher stakes — a stage in which decisions about ventilators, feeding tubes, resuscitation, and palliative care will be made by somebody — without ever having the conversation about who decides, and what should be decided.
This post is the version of the conversation you can have now, while everyone is healthy. What a living will is. What it isn’t. How it works alongside the Health Care Power of Attorney (HCPOA). The conversation that turns a blank form into a real plan. And the realities every caregiver should understand before the moment arrives.
If you haven’t read it, the foundational read: Estate Planning Checklist for Adult Children.
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