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I send practical, no-panic notes for people caring for an aging parent: how to start the hard conversations, how to make a plan before the emergency, and what I learned in 15 years of doing this for my own family. One useful thing at a time. No firehose.
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Three reasons it’s worth your inbox.
You’ll see it coming.
Most caregiving crises arrive with no warning and no instructions. These notes hand you the map early — the conversations, the assessments, the next three moves — so the phone call at 9:30 PM isn’t the first time you’ve thought about any of it.
It’s from someone who’s been there.
My Mom had Alzheimer’s. My Dad once drove the wrong way for eight hours and the Port Authority called me at 9:30 at night. I’m a Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), but mostly I’m someone who did this for 15 years and came back to show you the path.
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What you’ll actually get.
- The occasional note — not a daily deluge. I email when I have something worth your time.
- Plain-language help on the real stuff: the conversation, the move, the money, the last chapter.
- First look at new tools, and the rare thing that’s time-sensitive.
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