The Complete Caregiving Toolkit
You don’t need a crisis to start planning. You need a system.
A self-paced course for working adult children who want to honor their parents through the aging journey — without spending the next decade fighting for every morsel of help. 15 modules. 30 assessments. The whole arc, in one place.
Private community of caregivers · coaching upgrade credit if you outgrow it · free 30-min call if you get stuck
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The arc of the journey
Caregiving has three acts. The toolkit walks you through all of them.
Most people learn this one painful act at a time, in the wrong order, while everything else falls apart. The toolkit gives you the whole arc up front so the next conversation, the next move, the next call doesn’t catch you flat-footed.
ACT ONE
The Conversation
How to start talking to your parents and your siblings about what’s ahead — before a fall, a diagnosis, or a Port Authority phone call forces it. Assessing the situation, dividing the work, caring for yourself in the middle of it.
ACT TWO
The Move
The decisions families spend the most money and tears on. Aging in place vs. assisted living. What kind of facility, paid for how, with what level of care. The questions to ask, the red flags to spot, the math you have to do.
ACT THREE
The Last Chapter
End-of-life care, final arrangements, grief, and the practical layer most families never plan for: estate, documents, what gets passed down, what gets cleaned out, and who decides what.
What’s inside
What you’re actually getting for $197.
A real course, not a PDF. Built around the C-A-R-E framework — Conversations · Assessments · Roadmap · Education — so you finish with a plan, not just an inbox full of links.
15 modules
From Starting the Conversation to Build the Plan. Each module is 15–40 minutes of focused video plus the assessments and worksheets that go with it.
30 assessments & surveys
Built into the lessons themselves. Health, home, financial, mental, relational, and the harder ones — what’s the plan if a parent can’t live alone anymore? You answer them as you go.
Worksheets & templates
Medication lists, provider rosters, questions-for-doctor sheets, hospitalization checklists, home-safety walkthroughs, family meeting agendas. Yours to print and use.
The C-A-R-E framework
Conversations · Assessments · Roadmap · Education. The same planning method behind every ElderHonor program, applied at your pace.
Three years to work it
You don’t pay again. You don’t hit a paywall when life gets busy. You can come back to a module two years from now when the situation finally lands on your doorstep.
Built for the whole family
Designed for siblings, partners, and adult children to work through together. Knowledge spreads. The plan has buy-in. No one carries it alone.
A community of caregivers, in your pocket
Every purchase includes access to ElderHonor’s private online community — other adult children, spouses, and aging parents working through the same questions you are. Ask anything. Real answers from people who’ve been there. 24/7, moderated, confidential.
SAMPLE MODULE PREVIEW
Cropped student view —video player + lesson list
A typical module
Real lessons. Real run times. Built to actually finish.
Each module is broken into focused short-form lessons so you can knock out one over a lunch break or a couple before bed. Module 1, Starting the Conversation, is a working example:
STARTING THE CONVERSATION · 7 LESSONS
- Introduction1:20
- Objections and Opportunities4:21
- Statistics Will Help3:19
- Framing the Conversation6:48
- Example Conversation Starters3:14
- Summary0:51
- Starting the Conversation Survey—
The full curriculum
15 modules, grouped the way you’ll actually live them.
Foundation first, then the three acts, then the practical layer most families never plan for. You can take them in order or jump to the one that matches what’s in front of you right now.
“This is something that should be passed down for generations — to honor your parents, so it goes well with you.”
Built for the whole family.
The hardest version of this is when one person carries it alone — usually the daughter, usually in her 40s or 50s, usually still raising her own kids. That’s also the version most likely to break down later.
The toolkit was built for siblings, partners, and adult children to work through together. Knowledge spreads. The plan has buy-in. The 2 a.m. phone call doesn’t land on one set of shoulders by default. One purchase, one plan, one family.
- Share login with siblings, partner, adult children
- Family worksheets and meeting agendas built in
- Role-assignment maps so “who does what” gets answered once
- Three years of access so latecomers can catch up
Are you the parent reading this?
Some of our favorite people use the toolkit to plan their own care — before their kids ever have to step in. The hard conversation gets a lot easier when you start it. Same toolkit. Same framework. Same C-A-R-E methodology. You’re already doing the hard part by reading this.
Two promises
If $197 turns out not to be enough.
You’re not stuck with a toolkit that doesn’t fit your situation. We built two safety nets in.
PROMISE ONE
Your $197 applies as credit toward coaching.
If your situation needs more than self-paced — siblings can’t agree, a parent’s declining faster than you expected, the move is happening next month — the toolkit price applies as credit toward a One-on-Family Coaching package with David. No double-pay. You’re never out the $197.
PROMISE TWO
A free 30-minute call if you get stuck.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. If a module raises a question that’s actually two questions, or you can’t see the next move, book a free 30-minute consultation with David. No upsell pressure. Just enough help to get you unstuck.
“Everyone — family and friends — will be judging what you’re doing the entire time. It’s easier when there’s a plan.”
What if I just figure it out myself?
Fair question. Three answers most people land on, before they call us.
OPTION 1
Do it yourself.
Possible. Some people manage. The cost is your time — usually hundreds of hours over several months, on top of everything else you’re carrying. Pieces and parts to track down, best-guess conversations with parents and siblings, the gnawing feeling you’ve missed something. By the time you’ve gathered everything, the situation has moved.
OPTION 2
Hire a professional.
A specialist runs $150 to $450 an hour. You’re paying for experience. You may need professional help eventually anyway — but do you want to pay them to sort through your parents’ lives from scratch, or walk into their office with the work already done so they only do what they do best?
THE TOOLKIT
A structured plan you work through in your kitchen, on your timeline.
Same framework professionals use, without paying for the discovery hours. Built so the whole family can work it together. Yours for three years, $197. And if you outgrow it, the price applies as credit toward coaching — you’re never out the money.
A note from the founder
Why I built the toolkit you’re looking at.
The reason I built this toolkit is the night the Port Authority called.
It was 9:30 PM. My dad had been driving for seven or eight hours — we still don’t know exactly where. He’d taken a wrong turn somewhere and then kept going. My sister and I drove an hour and a half to pick him up and another hour and a half to get him home. Long night. Quiet ride.
By then Mom’s Alzheimer’s was already deep, and my wife and I had been caring for our parents and stepparents for what would eventually be fifteen years. Some of those years went smoothly because we’d done the planning early. The rest of them we spent fighting for every morsel of help — pressing past people who saw Mom as a number instead of as our mother, looking for the right doctor, the right facility, the right answer to a question we hadn’t known to ask.
The hardest part wasn’t the work. The hardest part was not knowing where to go, who to ask, or what to do.
So I decided to do something. I became a Certified Senior Advisor. I started writing down what we’d learned, and what I wished we’d known. I also asked 200+ others what they wished they had during their journey. The toolkit you’re looking at is the result. It’s the manual I would have handed my own family at 9:30 PM that night — the one that would have made everything easier, sooner.
You don’t have to wait for the call. You can plan now. That’s why this exists.
— David Moyer, CSA · Founder, ElderHonor
From students who’ve taken the course
What people are saying.
This course is excellent! It is full of so much information about a subject that isn’t discussed enough. Honoring your loved ones by caring for them as they age is a beautiful thing but can be so complicated and overwhelming, mostly because we are trying to figure things out as we go and feel so unprepared. This course helps alleviate that stress with clear teaching and gives you tons of tips and tools to feel confident about making difficult decisions. It is so well organized and easy to go back through and find exactly what you need, when you need it. Thank you for giving this topic the attention it deserves!
Haley D. · Toolkit student
The Caregiver Toolkit course is very comprehensive with many helpful forms, checklists and links. The course focuses on maintaining your loved one’s dignity and honoring them as they age. The Caring for Yourself section was useful as I reflected on how the caring for my aging mother has been affecting me. The recommendations on staying healthy were a good reminder as I support my mother who lives alone and not close by. I only wish this course had been available years ago when my father was still living — some decisions made for their end-of-life care may have been different and more thought out.
Karen F. · Toolkit student
Common questions before you start.
You don’t need a crisis to start. You need a plan.
15 modules. 30 assessments. Three years of access. One framework that pulls the whole family together.
Toolkit cost applies as credit toward coaching · free 30-minute call if you get stuck
HONOR · KNOWLEDGE · LIFE